Today was Grace's last ballet class of the year. Jonathan, Jack and I got to observe... Which means Jonathan, Jack and I got to observe the fist half and then jack and Jonathan went and walked around while I watched the whole thing.
I'm still not too sure if Grace actually Likes ballet class. She always has a big smile on her face when she is finished, says she has fun, tries really hard and is a leader in class, but I think she would rather be home. I think this may be the case about most things for our shy kid. Still, it's good for her to do it, so we will press on.
Ms. Carol talked to the kids tonight about how she can play the flute and piano and paint and draw and design costumes and sets as well as dance. She told the students how important hard work and discipline are when learning. Grace and I talked about that tonight at bed time. I asked her what she wanted to work really hard to learn to do. She said play the violin. She wants to have rosin for her bow in the shape of a flower and play her special song (the little women overture) and Jack's special song (In the Morning When I Rise). I told her we would try to make that happen. I also told her all about how older ballerinas who dance en pointe get to use rosin too, and she seemed really excited about that prospect and dancing on her tip toes.
I don't know what she will eventually excel in. I do, however, know her personality and gifts, and these things give me confidence that she will find something she wants to do, work very vary hard to excel at it, and succeed. It is just in her. And I LOVE this about her personality.
This is my girl who learned to peddle her trike before her second birthday, tie her shoes at the age of three, write all of her letters perfectly at four and at the same time refused to potty train, say hello to a friend, or drink milk for a month... just because. What can I say, she has a mind that can be set, and although sometimes a challenge for me as a parent, it is also a trait that, when tuned in the right way (Lord help me), will serve to her great advantage.
I really appreciate that my parents always gave me every opportunity possible to try as well as experience new things. I was not a prima ballerina, but I love dancing and the physical skill required to do it well. I am not a fabulous pianist or vocalist, but I love music. I am not a great artist, but I love and appreciate art and craft. I am not a famous architect, but I truly enjoy many aspects of the practice. I guess we are an "arts" family in many ways. I really want Grace to appreciate these things and have meaningful experiences with them just like I did growing up (and still find myself doing!). I don't so much care that she devote her life to them (probably best she doesn't) or master each. I really just want her to enjoy them and be able to share in that enjoyment with her.
So until next fall...

The little ballerina. Age 4.